The Rengöra Journal
The Summer We’re Still In
There is something curious about August. The days are still warm. The evenings still stretch long and golden. Gardens are overflowing, tomatoes are at their best, and somewhere nearby a sprinkler is probably ticking back and forth across a lawn. And yet, almost overnight, the world begins telling us that summer is over.
Store shelves fill with pumpkins. Backpacks replace beach towels. Football returns to television. Conversations turn toward school schedules, fall plans, and what comes next. Before we know it, we begin doing it too. We start looking ahead.
But sometimes, in our excitement for what is coming, we accidentally hurry past what is still here.
And August is still here.
Summer is still here.
There are peaches that need to be eaten over the kitchen sink because they are too juicy for a plate. There are evenings when dinner can still happen outside. There are bare feet, open windows, cold glasses sweating on patio tables, and towels draped over railings after a day near the water.
There are sunsets that seem in no particular hurry.
Maybe we could learn something from them.
We Are Always Arriving Somewhere Else
It isn’t only seasons that we rush. So much of life seems to be lived just a little bit ahead of where we actually are. Once the weekend gets here. Once school starts. Once work settles down. Once the holidays arrive. Once we finish this project. Once life gets less busy.
We spend so much time anticipating the next thing that the present can begin to feel like a hallway we are simply passing through on our way somewhere else.
Meanwhile, life is happening right where we are.
It happens on an ordinary Thursday afternoon. It happens while slicing watermelon at the kitchen counter. It happens when someone you love calls from the other room. It happens while you are driving home from the grocery store, watering the flowers, folding towels, watching the sky change color, or sitting outside for five more minutes because the evening feels too nice to go in.
These moments rarely announce themselves as important. Usually, we only realize they were important later.
Don’t Rush the Season You’re In
There is a quiet difference between looking forward to something and wishing away what comes before it.
We can love autumn without needing August to disappear. We can make plans for Christmas while still noticing the warmth of the sun on our shoulders. We can be excited about football season and still take one more evening walk while the light lasts.
Perhaps that is the invitation of late summer. Not to squeeze in every remaining activity. Not to create a frantic list of things we must do before Labor Day. Not to turn enjoying summer into one more assignment.
Just to notice that it is still happening.
There is still time to sit outside after dinner. Still time to buy the good peaches. Still time to walk barefoot through the grass. Still time to watch the sunset without doing anything else at the same time. Still time to go near the water and stay a little longer than you planned.
Still time to let an ordinary summer day simply be an ordinary summer day.
The Days We’ll Miss
It is easy to think memories are made mostly from the big things.
The vacations. The celebrations. The milestones. The beautifully planned days we remember to photograph.
But often, what we miss later are the smallest details.
- The sound of the screen door.
- Someone laughing from another room.
- The smell of sunscreen.
- Warm pavement beneath bare feet.
- The hum of a fan at night.
- A bowl of fruit on the counter.
- The particular way the evening light came through the window.
We don’t always know which ordinary moments will become precious to us. That may be exactly why they deserve our attention now.
A Small Joy to Try Today
Choose one thing that belongs to summer. Nothing elaborate. Eat outside.
Buy the peaches. Take the longer walk. Sit near the water. Watch the sunset.
Leave your phone inside for a little while.
And resist the urge to turn the moment into something productive. You do not need to preserve it perfectly. You do not need to photograph it.
You do not need to make it memorable.
Just be there.
Because eventually the mornings will cool, the light will change, and summer really will give way to something new. But not yet. For now, there is still August. There is still warmth. There is still light. There is still the summer we’re in.